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Kentang dan nikmat kemaafan.



SUATU ketika dahulu, ada seorang guru yang meminta anak-anak muridnya untuk membawa satu kantung plastik jernih kesekolah. Lalu, ia meminta setiap orang daripada mereka untuk memasukkan beberapa kentang ke dalamnya. Setiap orang diminta untuk memasukkan sebiji kentang, untuk setiap orang yang tidak mahu mereka maafkan.

Mereka diminta untuk menuliskan nama orang yang enggan mereka maafkan itu. Ada beberapa orang daripada kanak-kanak tersebut memiliki kantung ringan, walau banyak juga yang memiliki plastik dengan berat berlebihan.

Mereka diminta untuk membawa kantung jernih itu ke mana-mana sahaja mereka pergi selama seminggu genap, tidak kira siang atau malam. Pendek kata kantung itu harus ada disisi mereka kala tidur, diletakkan di meja saat belajar, dan dijinjit sewaktu berjalan.


Lama-kelamaan keadaan kentang itu, makin tidak menentu. Banyak daripadanya yang membusuk dan berbau. Hampir semua murid berkenaan mengeluh dengan tugasan yang diberikan oleh guru mereka itu. Akhirnya, waktu satu minggu selesai dan hampir semua kanak-kanak memilih untuk membuangnya daripada terus menyimpan.


Tugasan ini setidak-tidaknya memberikan pengajaran kepada anak-anak. Suka duka semasa membawa kantung yang berat akan menjelaskan kepada mereka bahawa membawa beban itu, sesungguhnya tidak menyenangkan. Memaafkan lebih mudah, daripada membawa beban itu ke mana sahaja kaki melangkah.

Ini adalah perumpamaan yang baik tentang harga yang perlu kita bayar untuk sebuah kepahitan yang kita simpan, dan dendam yang kita pegang terus-menerus. Getir dan berat meruapkan aroma yang tidak menyedapkan. Boleh jadi, itulah nilai yang akan kita dapat saat memendam amarah dan kebencian.

Kita sering berfikir, memaafkan adalah hadiah bagi orang yang kita beri maaf. Namun, kita harus kembali belajar, bahawa pemberian itu, adalah juga hadiah buat diri kita sendiri. Hadiah untuk sebuah kebebasan. Kebebasan dari rasa tertekan, rasa dendam, rasa amarah dan kedegilan hati

That's her!!!

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all
fine.

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than that.



Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!! '


HAPPY THOUGHTS

When things do not appear to change
And hope seems hard to find,
Just close your eyes and remember



To take one day of your time...
And then you'll see how things in your life
Change for the best like colours of this rainbow...

All you need to do is change your thoughts
make it an optimistic thoughts and,
Truly said that HE shall do the rest...
Have faith and belief in HIM....


Fowards and Backwards

Arrow go forwards only after pulling it to backwards,.
Bullet goes forwards only after pressing the trigger backwards.

Every human being will get happy
only after facing the difficulties in their life path...

So do not afraid to face the difficulties.
They will push you forwards.





Sand & Stone



TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING
THROUGH THE DESERT
DURING SOME POINT OF THE
JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN
ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND
SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE
IN THE FACE
 


THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED
WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT
SAYING ANYTHING,
WROTE IN THE SAND


TODAY MY BEST FRIEND

SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE


THEY KEPT ON WALKING,
UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS,
WHERE THEY DECIDED
TO TAKE A BATH

THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN
SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE
MIRE! AND STARTED DROWNING,
BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM.


AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM
THE NEAR DROWNING,
HE WROTE ON A STONE:


'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SAVED MY LIFE'




THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED
AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND
ASKED HIM, 'AFTER I HURT YOU,
YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW,
YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?'


THE FRIEND REPLIED
'WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US
WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN
IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF
FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY.
BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES
SOMETHING GOOD FOR US,
WE MUST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE
WHERE NO WIND
CAN EVER ERASE IT'


LEARN TO WRITE
YOUR HURTS IN
THE SAND AND TO
CARVE YOUR
BENEFITS IN STONE.




Stones
 

THEY SAY IT TAKES A
MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL
PERSON,
AN HOUR TO
APPRECIATE

THEM,
A DAY
TO LOVE THEM,
BUT THEN
AN ENTIRE LIFE
TO FORGET THEM.



Quotes from Norman Vincent Peale


Hi all. One of my hobby and passion is collecting quotes. 
I believe that there are many thing we can learn from a quote, 

because even a simple quotes have a deep 
meaning which required us to think.
 (^_^)

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Norman Vincent Peale
(1898-1993) 


Dr. Norman Vincent Peale 
(May 31, 1898 – December 24, 1993) 
(most notably of The Power of Positive Thinking
and a progenitor of the theory of "positive thinking".
  












P/s: The Greatest Quote is the Words of God (Allah)


Marble and Sweets (^_^)

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised. 

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble. 




Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, friendship, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully. 

Mencuci Hati

Segala aspek kehidupan ini bermula daripada hati. Oleh itu, dibawah ini ada beberapa cara bagaimana hendak mencuci hati, diolah oleh pakar motivasi Datuk Dr. Haji Fadzilah Kamsah.


1. Dirikan solat dan banyakkan berdo'a.

Ini adalah salah satu kaedah yang sungguh berkesan. Semasa berdo'a turut katakan:"Ya Allah, jadikan hatiku bersih."


2. Selawat keatas Nabi Muhammad s.a.w paling minima 100X sebelum tidur.

Ini merupakan satu pelaburan yang mudah dan murah. Disamping dosa-dosa di- ampunkan, otak tenang,murah rezeki, orang sayangkan kita dan mencetuskan semua perkara kebaikan.

3. Solat taubat.

Selain daripada memohon keampunan, dapat mencuci hati dan menenangkan minda.

4. Membaca Al-Quran

Selain dapat mencuci hati juga menenangkan jiwa, penyembuh, penenang, terapi. Sekurang- kurangnya bacalah "Qulhu-allah" sebanyak 3X..

5. Berma'af-ma'afan sesama kawan setiap hari

Semasa meminta maaf perlu sebutkan.

6. Bisikan kepada diri perkara yang positif

Jangan sesekali mengkritik, kutuk diri sendiri, merendah-rendahkan kebolehan diri sendiri. Katakan lah: "Aku sebenarnya......(perkara yang elok2 belaka).

7. Program minda/cuci minda

Paling baik pada waktu malam sebelum tidur, senyum, pejam mata. Katakan didalam hati: "Ya Allah, cuci otak aku, cuci hatiku. Esok aku nak jadi baik, berjaya, ceria, bersemangat, aktif, positif." Menurut kajian saikologi, apa yang disebut sebelum tidur dapat dirakamkan
sepanjang tidur sehingga keesokan harinya - CUBALAH!!).



8. Berpuasa

Sekiranya dalam berpuasa, terhindar dari melakukan perkara2 kejahatan.

9. Cuba ingat tentang mati (Sekiranya hendak melakukan sesuatu kejahatan, tidak sampai hati kerana bimbang akan mati bila2 masa).

10. Kekalkan wuduk.

11. Bersedekah.

12. Belanja orang makan.

13. Jaga makanan - jangan makan makanan yang subhat (was2, tidak pasti halal atau tidak).

14. Berkawan dengan ulama.

15. Berkawan dengan orang miskin (menginsafi).

16. Pesan pada orang, jadi baik.

17. Menjaga pancaindera (mata, telinga, mulut... dsb). Jangan dengar orang mengumpat.

"Sampaikanlah pesanan ini walaupun 1 ayat."


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